Swedish Proverbs for Slow Days
The proverbs older relatives quote at the kitchen table — and exactly when they use them.
Slow-day proverbs for the porch: cows on ice, hjärterum and stjärterum, digging where you stand — att fela är mänskligt.

- 1
Borta bra men hemma bäst.
East, west, home's best.
Tip: Said on coming home from any trip, however good it was.
- 2
Man ska inte gå över ån efter vatten.
Don't cross the river to fetch water.
Tip: Don't look far away for what's right here.
- 3
Rom byggdes inte på en dag.
Rome wasn't built in a day.
Tip: Patience with a long project.
- 4
Den som väntar på något gott väntar aldrig för länge.
Good things come to those who wait.
Tip: Said to impatient children — and adults.
- 5
Ingen ko på isen.
There's no danger, no rush.
Tip: lit. 'no cow on the ice' — nothing to worry about, take your time.
- 6
Bättre en fågel i handen än tio i skogen.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
Tip: Take the sure thing over the bigger maybe.
- 7
Man ska inte sälja skinnet förrän björnen är skjuten.
Don't count your chickens before they hatch.
Tip: lit. 'don't sell the hide before the bear is shot'.
- 8
Där det finns hjärterum finns det stjärterum.
There's always room for one more.
Tip: lit. 'where there's heart room there's bum room' — squeezing another guest in.
- 9
Droppen urholkar stenen.
Persistence wears down any obstacle.
Tip: lit. 'the drop hollows the stone'.
- 10
Som man bäddar får man ligga.
You made your bed, now lie in it.
Tip: Consequences of your own choices.
- 11
Övning ger färdighet.
Practice makes perfect.
Tip: Encouragement to someone learning something new.
- 12
Skomakare, bliv vid din läst.
Stick to what you know.
Tip: lit. 'cobbler, stay at your last' — don't meddle outside your field.
- 13
Det är inte guld allt som glimmar.
All that glitters is not gold.
Tip: Warning against appearances.
- 14
Ingen rök utan eld.
There's no smoke without fire.
Tip: Said about rumours with a grain of truth.
- 15
Bättre sent än aldrig.
Better late than never.
Tip: Said, often drily, to whoever arrives last.
- 16
Man saknar inte kon förrän båset är tomt.
You don't miss the water till the well runs dry.
Tip: lit. 'you don't miss the cow until the stall is empty'.
- 17
Den som gapar efter mycket mister ofta hela stycket.
Grasp all, lose all.
Tip: Greed costs you the whole thing.
- 18
Ur askan i elden.
Out of the frying pan into the fire.
Tip: lit. 'out of the ashes into the fire'.
- 19
Väck inte den björn som sover.
Let sleeping dogs lie.
Tip: lit. 'don't wake the bear that sleeps'.
- 20
Efter regn kommer solsken.
After rain comes sunshine.
Tip: Comfort after a hard stretch.
- 21
Morgonstund har guld i mun.
The early bird catches the worm.
Tip: lit. 'the morning hour has gold in its mouth'.
- 22
Små grytor har också öron.
Little pitchers have big ears.
Tip: lit. 'small pots have ears too' — watch what you say near children.
- 23
Nöden har ingen lag.
Necessity knows no law.
Tip: Excusing something done out of need.
- 24
Man lär så länge man lever.
You live and learn.
Tip: Said after a mistake, with a shrug.
- 25
Tala är silver, tiga är guld.
Speech is silver, silence is gold.
Tip: Very Swedish: sometimes saying nothing is better.
- 26
Alla goda ting är tre.
Third time lucky.
Tip: lit. 'all good things are three' — also used to justify a third helping.
- 27
Först till kvarn.
First come, first served.
Tip: lit. 'first to the mill' — used about tickets and berry spots alike.
- 28
Man ska inte köpa grisen i säcken.
Don't buy a pig in a poke.
Tip: Don't buy what you haven't inspected.
- 29
Ett gott skratt förlänger livet.
A good laugh lengthens your life.
Tip: Said after something genuinely funny.
- 30
Den som är rädd för vargen ska inte gå till skogs.
If you're afraid of the wolf, stay out of the forest.
Tip: Don't take on what frightens you.
- 31
Skynda långsamt.
Make haste slowly.
Tip: Two words, endlessly quoted.
- 32
Man ska inte kasta yxan i sjön.
Don't throw the axe in the lake.
Tip: Don't give up in despair.
- 33
Bra karl reder sig själv.
A capable man manages on his own.
Tip: Said, often ironically, to someone refusing help.
- 34
Ju mer man rör i skiten, desto mer luktar det.
The more you stir it, the worse it smells.
Tip: Crude but common — leave a bad matter alone.
- 35
Bättre tiga än illa tala.
Better to keep quiet than speak ill.
Tip: On holding your tongue.
- 36
Man ska inte tala illa om de döda.
Speak no ill of the dead.
Tip: Said at funerals and after them.
- 37
Gräv där du står.
Dig where you stand.
Tip: Start with what's in front of you.
- 38
Det som inte dödar, härdar.
What doesn't kill you hardens you.
Tip: Grim Swedish comfort.
- 39
Varje land har sin sed.
Every country has its custom.
Tip: On cultural difference.
- 40
Man ska inte lova mer än man kan hålla.
Don't promise more than you can keep.
Tip: About overcommitting.
- 41
När två träter har båda skulden.
When two quarrel, both are at fault.
Tip: Said to squabbling children and adults alike.
- 42
Hellre en ärlig fiende än en falsk vän.
Better an honest enemy than a false friend.
Tip: On loyalty.
- 43
Den som inte arbetar ska inte heller äta.
He who does not work shall not eat.
Tip: Biblical, and quoted at teenagers.
- 44
Att skiljas är att dö en smula.
To part is to die a little.
Tip: Said at goodbyes, half-seriously.
- 45
Ingen vet vad framtiden bär i sitt sköte.
Nobody knows what the future holds.
Tip: Slightly literary, still used.
- 46
Att fela är mänskligt.
To err is human.
Tip: Forgiving a mistake.
- 47
I nöden prövas vännen.
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
Tip: lit. 'in need the friend is tested'.