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Swedish Proverbs for Slow Days

The proverbs older relatives quote at the kitchen table — and exactly when they use them.

Slow-day proverbs for the porch: cows on ice, hjärterum and stjärterum, digging where you stand — att fela är mänskligt.

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  1. 1

    Borta bra men hemma bäst.

    East, west, home's best.

    Tip: Said on coming home from any trip, however good it was.

  2. 2

    Man ska inte gå över ån efter vatten.

    Don't cross the river to fetch water.

    Tip: Don't look far away for what's right here.

  3. 3

    Rom byggdes inte på en dag.

    Rome wasn't built in a day.

    Tip: Patience with a long project.

  4. 4

    Den som väntar på något gott väntar aldrig för länge.

    Good things come to those who wait.

    Tip: Said to impatient children — and adults.

  5. 5

    Ingen ko på isen.

    There's no danger, no rush.

    Tip: lit. 'no cow on the ice' — nothing to worry about, take your time.

  6. 6

    Bättre en fågel i handen än tio i skogen.

    A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

    Tip: Take the sure thing over the bigger maybe.

  7. 7

    Man ska inte sälja skinnet förrän björnen är skjuten.

    Don't count your chickens before they hatch.

    Tip: lit. 'don't sell the hide before the bear is shot'.

  8. 8

    Där det finns hjärterum finns det stjärterum.

    There's always room for one more.

    Tip: lit. 'where there's heart room there's bum room' — squeezing another guest in.

  9. 9

    Droppen urholkar stenen.

    Persistence wears down any obstacle.

    Tip: lit. 'the drop hollows the stone'.

  10. 10

    Som man bäddar får man ligga.

    You made your bed, now lie in it.

    Tip: Consequences of your own choices.

  11. 11

    Övning ger färdighet.

    Practice makes perfect.

    Tip: Encouragement to someone learning something new.

  12. 12

    Skomakare, bliv vid din läst.

    Stick to what you know.

    Tip: lit. 'cobbler, stay at your last' — don't meddle outside your field.

  13. 13

    Det är inte guld allt som glimmar.

    All that glitters is not gold.

    Tip: Warning against appearances.

  14. 14

    Ingen rök utan eld.

    There's no smoke without fire.

    Tip: Said about rumours with a grain of truth.

  15. 15

    Bättre sent än aldrig.

    Better late than never.

    Tip: Said, often drily, to whoever arrives last.

  16. 16

    Man saknar inte kon förrän båset är tomt.

    You don't miss the water till the well runs dry.

    Tip: lit. 'you don't miss the cow until the stall is empty'.

  17. 17

    Den som gapar efter mycket mister ofta hela stycket.

    Grasp all, lose all.

    Tip: Greed costs you the whole thing.

  18. 18

    Ur askan i elden.

    Out of the frying pan into the fire.

    Tip: lit. 'out of the ashes into the fire'.

  19. 19

    Väck inte den björn som sover.

    Let sleeping dogs lie.

    Tip: lit. 'don't wake the bear that sleeps'.

  20. 20

    Efter regn kommer solsken.

    After rain comes sunshine.

    Tip: Comfort after a hard stretch.

  21. 21

    Morgonstund har guld i mun.

    The early bird catches the worm.

    Tip: lit. 'the morning hour has gold in its mouth'.

  22. 22

    Små grytor har också öron.

    Little pitchers have big ears.

    Tip: lit. 'small pots have ears too' — watch what you say near children.

  23. 23

    Nöden har ingen lag.

    Necessity knows no law.

    Tip: Excusing something done out of need.

  24. 24

    Man lär så länge man lever.

    You live and learn.

    Tip: Said after a mistake, with a shrug.

  25. 25

    Tala är silver, tiga är guld.

    Speech is silver, silence is gold.

    Tip: Very Swedish: sometimes saying nothing is better.

  26. 26

    Alla goda ting är tre.

    Third time lucky.

    Tip: lit. 'all good things are three' — also used to justify a third helping.

  27. 27

    Först till kvarn.

    First come, first served.

    Tip: lit. 'first to the mill' — used about tickets and berry spots alike.

  28. 28

    Man ska inte köpa grisen i säcken.

    Don't buy a pig in a poke.

    Tip: Don't buy what you haven't inspected.

  29. 29

    Ett gott skratt förlänger livet.

    A good laugh lengthens your life.

    Tip: Said after something genuinely funny.

  30. 30

    Den som är rädd för vargen ska inte gå till skogs.

    If you're afraid of the wolf, stay out of the forest.

    Tip: Don't take on what frightens you.

  31. 31

    Skynda långsamt.

    Make haste slowly.

    Tip: Two words, endlessly quoted.

  32. 32

    Man ska inte kasta yxan i sjön.

    Don't throw the axe in the lake.

    Tip: Don't give up in despair.

  33. 33

    Bra karl reder sig själv.

    A capable man manages on his own.

    Tip: Said, often ironically, to someone refusing help.

  34. 34

    Ju mer man rör i skiten, desto mer luktar det.

    The more you stir it, the worse it smells.

    Tip: Crude but common — leave a bad matter alone.

  35. 35

    Bättre tiga än illa tala.

    Better to keep quiet than speak ill.

    Tip: On holding your tongue.

  36. 36

    Man ska inte tala illa om de döda.

    Speak no ill of the dead.

    Tip: Said at funerals and after them.

  37. 37

    Gräv där du står.

    Dig where you stand.

    Tip: Start with what's in front of you.

  38. 38

    Det som inte dödar, härdar.

    What doesn't kill you hardens you.

    Tip: Grim Swedish comfort.

  39. 39

    Varje land har sin sed.

    Every country has its custom.

    Tip: On cultural difference.

  40. 40

    Man ska inte lova mer än man kan hålla.

    Don't promise more than you can keep.

    Tip: About overcommitting.

  41. 41

    När två träter har båda skulden.

    When two quarrel, both are at fault.

    Tip: Said to squabbling children and adults alike.

  42. 42

    Hellre en ärlig fiende än en falsk vän.

    Better an honest enemy than a false friend.

    Tip: On loyalty.

  43. 43

    Den som inte arbetar ska inte heller äta.

    He who does not work shall not eat.

    Tip: Biblical, and quoted at teenagers.

  44. 44

    Att skiljas är att dö en smula.

    To part is to die a little.

    Tip: Said at goodbyes, half-seriously.

  45. 45

    Ingen vet vad framtiden bär i sitt sköte.

    Nobody knows what the future holds.

    Tip: Slightly literary, still used.

  46. 46

    Att fela är mänskligt.

    To err is human.

    Tip: Forgiving a mistake.

  47. 47

    I nöden prövas vännen.

    A friend in need is a friend indeed.

    Tip: lit. 'in need the friend is tested'.