Tjata, Tjafsa and Other Nagging
The vocabulary of going on at each other. Not one of these looks like its English meaning.
The bickering lexicon: tjat and tjafs, the cease-fire imperatives — lägg av, ge dig, släpp det.

- 1
tjata
To nag
Tip: Keep bringing something up until you get your way. Sluta tjata! = stop nagging!
- 2
tjat
Nagging (the noun)
Tip: Jag orkar inte ditt tjat = I can't take your nagging
- 3
tjafsa
To bicker
Tip: Argue about nothing much, usually loudly
- 4
tjafs
Pointless squabbling
Tip: Lägg av med tjafset = cut out the bickering
- 5
gnälla
To whine
Tip: Complain in a drawn-out, self-pitying way
- 6
gnällig
Whiny
Tip: Of a person or a tone of voice
- 7
gnällspik
A moaner
Tip: Literally a whine-nail; affectionate more than cruel
- 8
käfta
To mouth off
Tip: From käft, jaw — rude; käfta emot = answer back
- 9
bråka
To row or make trouble
Tip: Covers arguing and generally causing trouble
- 10
bråk
A row, trouble
Tip: Det blev bråk = a fight broke out
- 11
hålla på om
To go on about something
Tip: Han håller på om det jämt = he never drops it
- 12
lägg av
Cut it out
Tip: Also means 'you're kidding' depending on tone
- 13
ge dig
Give it a rest
Tip: Ge dig nu! — said to someone who won't stop
- 14
släpp det
Drop it
Tip: Ending an argument
- 15
börja inte
Don't start
Tip: Heading one off before it begins
- 16
säga till
To tell someone off
Tip: Mild — a word in someone's ear
- 17
skälla ut
To give someone a telling-off
Tip: Strong; skälla on its own is a dog barking
- 18
fräsa åt någon
To snap at someone
Tip: fräsa is also the sound of frying
- 19
sura
To sulk
Tip: sitta och sura = sit there sulking
- 20
envis
Stubborn, digging your heels in
Tip: Not an insult exactly — Swedes half admire it